A Goal is Just a Good Idea Until You...

Over 66 percent of adult North Americans are considered overweight or obese by recent studies, so it is not surprising to find that weight loss is one of the most popular New Year's resolutions.

I have been setting goals my whole life.

I'm sure I had a goal in Grade 5 that went something like, "get Johnny to take me to the school dance".

And in Grade 12, "get elected as President of the Student Council".

While my dating and political aspirations have changed over the years, setting goals is still a part of my life.

But a goal is just a good idea until you...

1. Write it down. What exactly are you going to have happen? I am going to weigh 125 pounds. Why is writing it down important? You may have heard this a hundred times or this may be your first introduction to the now famous quote by W. H. Murray...
   "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation) there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself,then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would not otherwise have occured. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favour all manner of unforseen incidents and meetings and material assistance which no man could have dreamed would come his way." What more reason do you need to get that pen and paper?
2. Determine what you are willing to give for the achievement of that goal. In order to weigh 125 pounds, I am going to follow a plan of healthy food choices and regular exercise. If you think that you're going to achieve a new goal, without "doing something different", you're fooling yourself. Whatever you've been doing in the past has gotten you where you are today. There's no way that doing the same old things will get you to a new place or a new result. I highly doubt that you've been following a plan of healthy food choices and regular exercise, so this is an excellent start!
3. Determine "by when" this is all going to come together. It's January now. It will take some time to implement your new strategy. You might come upon some resistance along the way; you might have to re-group and re-strategize a little here and there. By June 30, 2008, I will weigh 125 pounds and I will weigh within 2 pounds of that weight for the rest of the year. Give yourself time to get to your goal weight but, once you're there, hang on to it. If summer means fun and frolicking to you, use the excitement of the coming season to motivate you. Go bathing suit shopping. Decide what you want to look good in. Envision yourself on the cruise ship, looking sexy, healthy and strong. You have 6 months to accomplish this and it's entirely possible. A strong reason why will be crucial to your long term success.
4. Make your plan. This is where it gets specific. No one loses weight with a little effort here and a little effort there. Everything in your life that works does so by a system. Your body is a system and burning body fat requires a plan. Write it out - this is what I will do on a daily basis... If you're not sure what to do, that's where your coach comes in. I will help you devise a strategy, based on energy in and energy out, whereby you will see results on a weekly basis. We start by taking measurements and a body fat reading. We look at your current lifestyle and food choices. And then we go to work, creating a plan that takes into account some of your favorites. We put this together like pieces to a puzzle.
5. Put your goal and your plan together, preferably in a new journal that you'll use just for this purpose. Choose a journal with a colorful cover. Write in it daily. Know where it is at all times. Never leave the house without it. Make a collage with images and words that conjure up happy, excited thoughts about the achievement of your goal. Find pictures of exotic warm locations, sandy beaches, trim figures, beautiful clothing. Use words and phrases of inspiration - whatever inspires you personally.
6. Review your plan frequently. Do you think that CEOs get to review their business plan now and again? Of course not, they are on it every day. They are looking at each action they are taking. Is it leading them towards or away from the goals that they've set for the company? Your body is no different; remember I said it was a system. Repeat your goal and review your plan twice a day, preferably morning (when you first wake up) and evening (just before you go to sleep). Gaze at your collage, feel happy and excited, and imagine that you're looking at your life and your body in those happy circumstances.

This is the strategy I adopted to help me lose over 20 pounds of body fat. As I've said in this blog before, I Did It, So Can You!

For a more personalized look at getting from where you are to where you want to be, send me an e-mail at billiesinclair@mybodywise.org .

Let's make this the year that you achieve the body that you've dreamed of for the past few years!